10 Facts Evangelical Pastors MUST Know about Kids and Divorce [VIDEO]

by | Jul 3, 2020 | Christians and Divorce, Divorce and Children, Safe Churches & Friends

10 facts in just 3 minutes! It summarizes the best studies on kids and divorce. Each slide includes the source and the citation.

 

For more studies about children and divorce, see Chapter 7 in the book, The Life-Saving Divorce by Gretchen Baskerville.

 

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What’s a Life-Saving Divorce? A Life-Saving Divorce is a divorce for the serious reasons: a pattern of chronic emotional abuse, infidelity, domestic violence, sexual immorality, felony behavior, neglect, substance abuse, etc.

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  • Another woman’s story, Stephanie’s, is told in 6 parts on Pastor Jeff Crippen’s anti-abuse blog UnholyCharade.com.  Pastor Crippen talks about the evil the church has done to her and gives churches a better way to handle these situations, complete with biblical rationale.
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Popular posts:

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But I thought it was God’s Will for Me to Marry this Person? I believe “God brought us together.” But our marriage is so painful.

10 Turning Points: What is the “Last Straw” for Most Devout Christians. See One, Two, Three.

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How do I start dating again? I worry I’ll never find anyone. 

Where can I find the book?

Examples of 150 examples of types of abuse (physical, emotional, sexual, financial, and neglect) and explaining the term “gaslighting,” along with many first-person stories, read Chapter 4 in the Life-Saving Divorce.

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