Basic Information Gathering Forms for Divorce or Legal Separation

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50 MOST POPULAR BLOG POSTS
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- What is a Life-Saving Divorce? How Do We Know Half of Divorces are “Life-Saving”? (or watch the video)
- Life-Saving Divorce: Introduction What Is this Book About? (audio and transcript)
- About Me: Why Is a Nice Christian Girl Like Me Promoting Divorce?
- How Can I Get the Book, The Life-Saving Divorce? (Amazon affiliate link.)
Physical and Emotional Abuse & Infidelity
- 130 Examples of Abuse: Emotional, Physical, Financial, Spiritual and Gaslighting
- Abuse is Biblical Grounds for Divorce
- “But He Never Hit Me”: Divorce for Neglect, Emotional, and Financial Abuseå
- Pastors Who Accept Physical and Emotional Abuse as Grounds for Divorce
- Severe Emotional Neglect: Toni’s Story of Finding Freedom (video)
- 40 Years of Murderous Rages and How I Got Free! Karen’s story (video)
- How Churches Should Handle Abuse Victims (video with Pastor Neil Schori)
- Help! I’m Married to a Cheater: Should I Stay or Go?
- Married to a Pedophile: How I Got Out – Pam’s Story (video)
- Help! I Am Alone with the Abuser
God Allows Divorce to Protect Victims
- Jesus’ Greatest Divorce Sermon – Luke 13 (or watch the Video)
- Pastors Who Accept Physical and Emotional Abuse as Grounds for Divorce
- Myth: The Person Who Files for Divorce Caused the Divorce
- Haven’t Our English Bibles Always Said, “God hates divorce”? No.
- Jesus Said, “Love My Enemy”—Can I Still Divorce Them?
- But I Thought it Was God’s Will for Me to Marry this Person!
- Is Pointing Out Marriage-Endangering Sin Being Judgmental? (video)
- One Woman’s Story: Adultery, Prayer and the Bible
- Is Marriage an Unconditional Covenant or a Conditional One? (Video)
- Does Divorce Shatter the Image of Christ and the Church as John Piper Suggests?
- Divorce and the Good Samaritan Story
- Myth: Divorce is the Unpardonable Sin and “God Hates Divorce”
- Myth: Your Divorce Will Shatter the Image of Christ and the Church
- Myth: You Must Forgive and Forget Over and Over, Forever
Does God Hate Divorce? No, Most English Bible Translations Don’t Say That
- Malachi 2:16 Haven’t Our English Bibles Always Said, “God hates divorce”? No.
- Myth: Divorce is the Unpardonable Sin and “God Hates Divorce”
- List of Every Known Puritan Divorce in Massachusetts between 1639 and 1692.
How to Find a Good Supportive Church
- Pastors Who Accept Physical and Emotional Abuse as Grounds for Divorce
- 7 Ways to Know if a Church is Safe for Abused Wives (or Abused Husbands)
- Do My Pastors Have a Say about Me Getting a Divorce?
- Good vs. Bad Pastoral Counselors on the Topic of Marital Abuse: 40 People Tell their Stories
What If My Pastor Says It Would Be Wrong to Get Divorced for
Abuse?
- 5 Bible Verses that
Say You Should Separate from an Abuser - 1 Million God-honoring Divorcees Cannot Find a Good Church
- Church Denominations
and Divorce Policies Comparison Chart - Excommunication
for Getting Divorced? What to Do! - Evangelicals Shooting their Own Wounded Divorcees (blog/transcript)
- Myth: You Don’t Take God-
Ordained Marriage Seriously - Sermon Ideas for Domestic
Violence Awareness Month – October - Churches That Block Abused
Wives (and Husbands) From Divorcing - Southern Baptists make
Evangelicalism Unsafe for Abused Wives & Husbands
Divorce Saves Lives: The Surprising (Wonderful!) Truth About Divorce Nobody
Told You
- Harvard Study
Shows Divorce Saves Lives - Your Kids Will Likely Be Fine
After Divorce (Nearly 8 in 10 Are!) - 10 Facts Evangelical Pastors MUST Know about
Kids and Divorce - There Is No Divorce
Crisis. We have a Sin Crisis. - Myth: 95% of Divorces are for
Falling Out of Love
Will I Ever Find Love Again? Dating After Divorce: Good News
- Will I Ever Find Love Again?
- Dating after Divorce: An
interview with Gina Kaye - I
Fear I’ll Never Find a Healthy Relationship - Remarriage after Divorce:
How Can I Claim to be the Innocent Spouse? I Had My Faults Too!
Common Myths
- Myth: Your Marriage Would
Be Great if You Just Submitted More - Myth: Divorce will Destroy
Your Children, So Stay for the Sake of Your Kids - Myth: Divorce is the
Unpardonable Sin and “God Hates Divorce” - Myth: You Just Didn’t Try Hard
Enough - Myth: You Don’t Take God-
Ordained Marriage Seriously - Myth: Your Divorce Will
Shatter the Image of Christ and the Church - Myth: You Must Forgive and
Forget Over and Over, Forever - Myth: 95% of Divorces are for
Falling Out of Love - 27 Myths about
Divorce That Probably Don’t Apply to Committed Christians
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