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Divorce Tips: 10 Ways To Stay In Touch With Your Children When They Are With The Other Parent

Divorce Tips: 10 Ways To Stay In Touch With Your Children When They Are With The Other Parent

by gbaskerville | Mar 6, 2022 | Divorce and Children, High-Conflict Divorces, Parental alienation

Question of the Day from a Divorced Mother of Young Children with Shared Custody: “Is there a preferred phone, app, or texting application that you have given your young child so that they can reach out via call or text to the “off duty” parent when away? My daughter...
Hope Restored: What Do They Teach About Kids and Divorce

Hope Restored: What Do They Teach About Kids and Divorce

by gbaskerville | Feb 17, 2022 | Christians and Divorce, Divorce and Children, Focus on the Family, High-Conflict Divorces, Hope Restored Marriage Intensive

Hope Restored Marriage Intensives Want to Scare You About Divorce and Children START HERE—Note about this series: This is Part 2 of the "Best-Kept Secrets about Hope Restored Marriage Intensives" series. Links to: Part 1 I'm doing a multi-part series HOPE RESTORED...
12 Positive Outcomes of Divorce that Nobody Told Us

12 Positive Outcomes of Divorce that Nobody Told Us

by gbaskerville | Feb 10, 2022 | Christians and Divorce, Divorce and Children, High-Conflict Divorces, Will I Find Love Again?

12 POSITIVE OUTCOMES OF LIFE-SAVING DIVORCES...THAT NOBODY TOLD US   Believe it or not, most Americans place a high value on marriage. We long for a marriage that is loving, faithful, and lifelong. But we also believe divorce may be necessary in some cases.   You...
Lundy Bancroft: Why Mothers Are Losing Custody of Their Kids to Abusers, and What You Can Do About It

Lundy Bancroft: Why Mothers Are Losing Custody of Their Kids to Abusers, and What You Can Do About It

by gbaskerville | Jan 28, 2022 | Book Reviews, Divorce and Children, High-Conflict Divorces, Kids and Parental Alienation

Why Mothers are Losing Custody of their Kids to Abusers, and What You Can Do About It   Interview with Lundy Bancroft, the bestselling author of Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men about his new novel, IN CUSTODY (Amazon affiliate...
Critique: “The Effects of Divorce On Children,” a Focus on the Family Video

Critique: “The Effects of Divorce On Children,” a Focus on the Family Video

by gbaskerville | Jan 13, 2022 | Focus on the Family, High-Conflict Divorces

Critique: “The Effects of Divorce On Children” Video by Focus on the Family 12 Mistakes in this Video   This is a critique of the new video, “The Effects of Divorce On Children” from Focus on the Family, featuring Danny Huerta, Tim Sanford, and John Trent ...
What is a Flying Monkey? (In the Divorce Context)

What is a Flying Monkey? (In the Divorce Context)

by gbaskerville | Jan 12, 2022 | High-Conflict Divorces

What is a Flying Monkey? In a divorce, a "flying monkey" is an ally your ex-spouse has won to their side. Often they start by driving a wedge between you and this person by subtly smearing your reputation over time. Below are some examples and at the bottom of this...
Critique: “Marriage is Hard. Divorce is Hard. Choose Your Hard.”

Critique: “Marriage is Hard. Divorce is Hard. Choose Your Hard.”

by gbaskerville | Dec 31, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, Gaslighting Examples, High-Conflict Divorces, Myths, Safe Churches & Friends

Critique of the Saying, “Marriage is Hard. Divorce is Hard. Choose Your Hard”   There’s a meme going around the internet and it starts with the line “Marriage is Hard. Divorce is Hard. Choose Your Hard.” . This maxim annoys me. It was written by some smug person...
How to Defend Yourself against “You Made Your Bed; Now Lie in It”

How to Defend Yourself against “You Made Your Bed; Now Lie in It”

by gbaskerville | Dec 30, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, High-Conflict Divorces

How to Defend Yourself against “You Made Your Bed; Now Lie in It” 3 Reasons You Didn’t See Warning Signs or Red Flags     The surest sign that a person is a fake friend is one who says: “You Made Your Bed; Now Lie in It”   They are blaming you, “You get...
10 Steps to Start the Divorce Process if You Need a Life-Saving Divorce

10 Steps to Start the Divorce Process if You Need a Life-Saving Divorce

by gbaskerville | Dec 30, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, High-Conflict Divorces

10 Steps to Starting the Divorce Process, if You Need a Life-Saving Divorce   First, make sure you (and the kids) are safe.   If your spouse has weapons or has a history of destructive behavior, you need to take precautions. If your spouse has a pattern of...
How To Tell the Kids About The Divorce

How To Tell the Kids About The Divorce

by gbaskerville | Sep 2, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, Divorce and Children, First-person stories, High-Conflict Divorces, Kids and Parental Alienation, Parental alienation

HOW DO WE TELL THE KIDS ABOUT OUR DIVORCE?   Note: This article is for difficult divorces, not for amicable divorces.  Many books and articles recommend that you and the other parent should tell the children together. . But that works only if the reason for...
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