by gbaskerville | Jul 17, 2023 | High-Conflict Divorces, What is a Life-Saving Divorce?, Why Do We Divorce?
Did Forbes Really Say "Lack Of Commitment" Is the Top Reason For Divorce? Recently I saw the graph “Top Reasons for Divorce” on the Forbes Advisor website, and my heart sank. Let me be honest, this is the kind of headline that people use to stigmatize...
by gbaskerville | Jun 27, 2023 | Divorce Laws Legal Matters, High-Conflict Divorces, Uncategorized, What is a Life-Saving Divorce?, Why Do We Divorce?
Yes, Dr. Gary Chapman, Divorce CAN Lead to Personal Happiness Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages, advises against divorce, even in abusive marriages, according to a post by Pam Woody on the Focus on the Family website. In his book Hope for the...
by gbaskerville | Jun 13, 2023 | Divorce Laws Legal Matters, High-Conflict Divorces, Uncategorized, What is a Life-Saving Divorce?, Why Do We Divorce?
Is Jordan Peterson Right about Women and Divorce? This week's question comes from a woman in my co-ed online divorce recovery group, the Life-Saving Divorce, made up of people who needed a life-saving divorce to escape a destructive marriage. So if you are new to my...
by gbaskerville | Jun 8, 2023 | Divorce Laws Legal Matters, High-Conflict Divorces, What is a Life-Saving Divorce?, Why Do We Divorce?
Do women file 70-80% of divorces in the U.S.? It's probably not quite as high as 70%, but it's close. According to Stanford professor Dr. Michael Rosenfeld's 2017 study, about 2-in-3 divorces or 66% to 69% percent of U.S. divorces are wanted by the wife. The same is...
by gbaskerville | Mar 6, 2022 | Divorce and Children, High-Conflict Divorces, Parental alienation
Question of the Day from a Divorced Mother of Young Children with Shared Custody: “Is there a preferred phone, app, or texting application that you have given your young child so that they can reach out via call or text to the “off duty” parent when away? My daughter...
by gbaskerville | Feb 17, 2022 | Christians and Divorce, Divorce and Children, Focus on the Family, High-Conflict Divorces, Hope Restored Marriage Intensive
Hope Restored Marriage Intensives Want to Scare You About Divorce and Children START HERE—Note about this series: This is Part 2 of the "Best-Kept Secrets about Hope Restored Marriage Intensives" series. Links to: Part 1 I'm doing a multi-part series HOPE RESTORED...
by gbaskerville | Feb 10, 2022 | Christians and Divorce, Divorce and Children, High-Conflict Divorces, Will I Find Love Again?
12 POSITIVE OUTCOMES OF LIFE-SAVING DIVORCES...THAT NOBODY TOLD US Believe it or not, most Americans place a high value on marriage. We long for a marriage that is loving, faithful, and lifelong. But we also believe divorce may be necessary in some cases. You...
by gbaskerville | Jan 28, 2022 | Book Reviews, Divorce and Children, High-Conflict Divorces, Kids and Parental Alienation
Why Mothers are Losing Custody of their Kids to Abusers, and What You Can Do About It Interview with Lundy Bancroft, the bestselling author of Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men about his new novel, IN CUSTODY (Amazon affiliate...
by gbaskerville | Jan 13, 2022 | Focus on the Family, High-Conflict Divorces
Critique: “The Effects of Divorce On Children” Video by Focus on the Family 12 Mistakes in this Video This is a critique of the new video, “The Effects of Divorce On Children” from Focus on the Family, featuring Danny Huerta, Tim Sanford, and John Trent ...
by gbaskerville | Jan 12, 2022 | High-Conflict Divorces
What is a Flying Monkey? In a divorce, a "flying monkey" is an ally your ex-spouse has won to their side. Often they start by driving a wedge between you and this person by subtly smearing your reputation over time. Below are some examples and at the bottom of this...
