AI Is Not a Safe Place to Process Your Divorce If you are going through divorce, especially an abusive or high-conflict one, I want to say this as plainly as I can: public AI is...
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How to Afford Divorce When Your Spouse Controls the Money
How Can I Afford to Divorce? When people ask me, “How can I afford to divorce?” I hear the fear underneath it: I finally see that I may need to leave, but I do not have the money...
Gray Rock Method Explained for Christian Divorce and Co-Parenting
What Is Gray Rock? A Strategy for Handling a Destructive Person Sometimes you cannot go No Contact. If you share minor children with a destructive ex, you may be legally required...
The #GreaterThan Campaign’s Divorce Pivot Misses the Hardest Truth
Divorce Hurts Kids—But Abuse Hurts Them More (A Response to the #GreaterThan Campaign’s Divorce Pivot) This post responds to the campaign’s claim that “divorce hurts kids” by...
Christian Divorce Testimonies: Does God Bring Couples Back Together?
Christian Divorce Testimonies: Does God Bring Couples Back Together? A Question Survivors Ask With Trembling Hope One of the most common questions I hear is: “Are there any...
Why Presumed 50/50 Custody Fails Children: The Truth Behind Kentucky’s Law
Why the NPO’s Claims About Kentucky’s 50/50 Custody Law Don’t Hold Up The National Parents Organization (NPO) claims that Kentucky’s presumed 50/50 custody law proves equal...
The Hidden Danger of Requiring Equal 50/50 Child Custody: What People Don’t See
The Hidden Danger of Presumed 50/50 Child Custody: What People Don’t See Why Presumed 50/50 Custody Can Endanger Children Presumed 50/50 custody—sometimes called default equal...
What Experts in the PBS Documentary Kids & Divorce Say About Custody After Abuse
What Experts in the PBS Documentary "Kids & Divorce" Say About Custody After Abuse The PBS documentary Kids & Divorce: For Better or Worse, hosted by journalist Dave...
How to Prepare for a Mandatory Divorce Parenting Class
💔 Getting Through the Mandatory Divorce Parenting Class If you’re looking for Christian divorce support, you’re not alone. Many believers facing an abusive or high-conflict...
The Top 10 No-Fault Divorce Myths and How to Refute Them
Experts Respond to 10 Common Critiques of No-Fault Divorce Let's separate the facts from the fear-bombs. This article addresses the common critiques of no-fault divorce, and...
7 PROS AND CONS OF NO-FAULT DIVORCE for Christians
Pros and Cons of No-Fault Divorce for Christians Background: As a young conservative Christian, I was taught that divorce was always sinful and that no-fault divorce undermined...
A Teenager asks, “What is the Effect of Divorce on Children?”
On Instagram, a teenager messaged me, "What is the effect of divorce on children?" She was working on a school project. Here is my reply: Hi Marcella (not her real name),...
Debunking the “Stay Together for 5 Years” Lie: When Divorce is the Right Decision
Many Christian leaders enjoy quoting the study Does Divorce Make People Happy? from the Institute for American Values, often proclaiming, “Two out of three unhappily married...
The Institute for American Values on Divorce: Why Sticking It Out Isn’t Always the Answer
Many people like to quote the study "Does Divorce Make People Happy?" from The Institute for American Values, proudly claiming, “Two out of three unhappily married adults who...
Forbes Divorce Graph Misleads: Infidelity, Abuse, and Addiction Were Key
Did Forbes Really Say "Lack Of Commitment" Is the Top Reason For Divorce? Watch the 2-minute video summary of this post. The Forbes Graph and the Study Behind It I saw this...
Do Women File for Divorce 70%-80% of the Time?
Do women file 70–80% of divorces in the U.S.? You may have heard the claim that women file for divorce “70–80% of the time.” That number is often used to shame women, but the...
Divorce Tips: 10 Ways To Stay In Touch With Your Children When They Are With The Other Parent
Question of the Day from a Divorced Mother of Young Children with Shared Custody: "Is there a preferred phone, app, or texting application that you have given your young child so...
Hope Restored: What Do They Teach About Kids and Divorce
What Hope Restored Teaches About Children and Divorce—and What Their Own Manual Actually Shows Hope Restored pushes a clear message: divorce harms children, so the responsible...
12 Positive Outcomes of Divorce that Nobody Told Us
12 POSITIVE OUTCOMES OF LIFE-SAVING DIVORCES...THAT NOBODY TOLD US Believe it or not, most Americans place a high value on marriage. We long for a marriage that is loving,...
Lundy Bancroft: Why Mothers Are Losing Custody of Their Kids to Abusers, and What You Can Do About It
Why Mothers are Losing Custody of their Kids to Abusers, and What You Can Do About It Interview with Lundy Bancroft, the bestselling author of Why Does He Do That? Inside...
Critique: “The Effects of Divorce On Children,” a Focus on the Family Video
Critique: "The Effects of Divorce On Children" Video by Focus on the Family 12 Mistakes in this Video This is a critique of the new video, "The Effects of Divorce On...