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Critique: “Divorced: What to Do When,” Focus on the Family article, by Ron Blue, Jeremy L. White

Critique: “Divorced: What to Do When,” Focus on the Family article, by Ron Blue, Jeremy L. White

by gbaskerville | Feb 23, 2022 | Book Reviews, Christians and Divorce, Divorce Bible Verses, Focus on the Family, For Pastors

Critique: “Divorced: What to Do When,” Focus on the Family article, by Ron Blue, Jeremy L. White   This is a critique and analysis of the Focus on the Family article, "Divorced: What to Do When," by Ron Blue and Jeremy L. White. SUMMARY of “Divorced: What to Do...
Focus on the Family’s  3-Point Strategy for Gaslighting Wives  in Destructive Marriages

Focus on the Family’s 3-Point Strategy for Gaslighting Wives in Destructive Marriages

by gbaskerville | Feb 13, 2022 | Christians and Divorce, Divorce Bible Verses, Focus on the Family, For Pastors

Focus on the Family's 3-Point Strategy for Gaslighting Wives to Stay in Destructive Marriages   Did you know Focus on the Family uses three methods to manipulate wives to stay in their abusive, addicted, or sexually immoral relationships?   Focus on the...
Puritan Divorces: 10 Valid Reasons for Divorce

Puritan Divorces: 10 Valid Reasons for Divorce

by gbaskerville | Dec 11, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, For Pastors, Safe Churches & Friends

This table shows every known divorce among the Massachusetts Puritans 1639-1692. There are 40 divorces listed and the columns give the record location and page, the date, the names of the individuals, the cause of the divorce, the court (the jurisdiction), and the...
Nearly 6 in 10 Christians Switch Churches When They Divorce

Nearly 6 in 10 Christians Switch Churches When They Divorce

by gbaskerville | Nov 23, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, For Pastors, Safe Churches & Friends

SWITCH CHURCHES, OR STAY, WHEN YOU DIVORCE? Nearly 6 in 10 Christians switch churches and leave their former church when they divorce. Lifeway Research (affiliated with the Southern Baptist Convention) did a survey of church-going Christian divorcees and found that...
1-in-4 Highly Religious U.S. Marriages Have Abuse

1-in-4 Highly Religious U.S. Marriages Have Abuse

by gbaskerville | Nov 5, 2021 | Abuse examples, Christians and Divorce, For Pastors, Safe Churches & Friends

1-in-4 Highly Religious U.S. Marriages Have Abuse   How many Christian marriages have abuse (intimate partner violence)?   It’s difficult to believe, but the conservative pro-marriage researchers at the Institute for Family Studies, have reported that 1-in-4...
Review: DivorceCare® Program Pros and Cons

Review: DivorceCare® Program Pros and Cons

by gbaskerville | Nov 3, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, For Pastors, Safe Churches & Friends

Review of DivorceCare® Divorce Recovery Groups: Pros and Cons   DivorceCare® (DC) is a conservative Christian divorce recovery program used in about 10% of Protestant churches. It runs 13 weeks typically. To find a group near you, click here:...
Churches & Christian Denominations with Unsafe Divorce Policies for Abused Spouses

Churches & Christian Denominations with Unsafe Divorce Policies for Abused Spouses

by gbaskerville | Sep 11, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, Do I have biblical grounds for divorce?, For Pastors, Safe Churches & Friends

 Churches & Denominations with Unsafe Official Divorce Policies for Abused Spouses If you belong to one of these denominations or attend one of their churches, please contact them.  Even if your own pastor condones divorce for abuse, please write, call, or email...
Joseph and Potiphar’s Wife: Resisting Sexual Harassment and Assault

Joseph and Potiphar’s Wife: Resisting Sexual Harassment and Assault

by gbaskerville | Aug 29, 2021 | Abuse examples, Christians and Divorce, For Pastors

HOW SEXUAL ABUSE VICTIMS RESIST   Recently there was a tweet on Twitter talking about the biblical story of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife (Genesis 39). The tweet suggested that Joseph ran from the woman’s advances, therefore he was obviously an innocent victim. This...
Why Does She Stay In An Abusive Marriage? 50 Women & Men Tell Why

Why Does She Stay In An Abusive Marriage? 50 Women & Men Tell Why

by gbaskerville | Aug 22, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, Do I have biblical grounds for divorce?, First-person stories, For Pastors, Myths, What is a Life-Saving Divorce?

50 Abused Wives and Husbands Answer the Question: “Why Did You Stay So Long?”   People wonder why abused women and men stay with a dangerous spouse for so long. I asked people in my private Facebook group (Life-Saving Divorce for Separated and Divorced...
Why Did I Stay So Long When I Had Serious Grounds for Divorce?

Why Did I Stay So Long When I Had Serious Grounds for Divorce?

by gbaskerville | Aug 19, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, Do I have biblical grounds for divorce?, First-person stories, For Pastors, Myths, What is a Life-Saving Divorce?

Why did I stay so long when I had 100% serious biblical grounds for divorce? I asked this question in my private Facebook group, and here are some of the answers I received (anonymized, of course, to protect people's safety).     1. Because I was taught...
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