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Christians and Divorce
Am I the One Destroying the Relationship?
In her own words (she's replying to me, Gretchen Baskerville): Transcription of this dear woman's Facebook comment: "This was my experience exactly. After many...
Remarriage after Divorce: How Can I Claim to be the Innocent Spouse? I Had My Faults Too!
Recently in my private Facebook group, we were talking about the Bible allowing remarriage for the innocent spouse after a valid divorce. After all, God doesn't hold you...
But I Thought it Was God’s Will for Me to Marry this Person!
I thought it was God's will for us to marry. I prayed and asked for the Lord's leading. Did God make a mistake? Did I make a mistake? Did I misunderstand God? Was I just lying to...
Memes: If You Got a Life-Saving Divorce, You have Nothing to Be Ashamed Of
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But He Never Hit Me: Divorce for Neglect, Emotional, and Financial Abuse
As a lay divorce recovery leader in churches for the past 20 years, it's been my privilege to hear a lot of stories of committed Christians who had to leave their destructive...
Does Divorce Shatter the Image of Christ and the Church as John Piper Suggests?
Will Your Divorce Destroy the Image of Christ and the Church? John Piper’s Strange Views on How to Treat People Who Are Going Through Divorce Several years ago, retired pastor...
Table of Contents for The Life-Saving Divorce Book
Help! I’m Married to a Cheater! To Stay or to Go?
What does a Christian do when adultery is discovered? We were taught to value the sanctity of marriage. We learned that marriage was for life, and that God can save any marriage....
Myth 18: Divorce is the Unpardonable Sin and “God Hates Divorce”
Overview: This is Myth 18 of 27 Myths about divorce that aren't likely to be true of committed Christians who love God and take their faith seriously. These messages make us...
Life-Saving Divorce Podcasts & Interviews in the Media
Gretchen's Interviews on Life-Saving Divorces (In addition to the interviews below, see Gretchen's You Tube Channel with more than 50 videos. Buy the book, The Life-Saving...
Pastors Who Accept Physical and Emotional Abuse as Grounds for Divorce
The tide is turning. In 2015, nearly 3 in 4 Protestant pastors surveyed by LifeWay Research reported they did not view divorce for physical abuse as a sin, according to this...
What is a Life-Saving Divorce?
A life-saving divorce is a divorce for serious reasons. It's the opposite of a frivolous divorce. It is not an "I'm bored" divorce, or an "I feel unfulfilled" divorce, or an "I...
Life-Saving Divorce: Introduction (audio and transcript)
Sign up for the Life-Saving Divorce email list for updates. (You can unsubscribe at any time.) TRANSCRIPT: What's a Nice Christian Girl Like You Doing Promoting...
How I Changed My Mind About Divorce: Steve Daugherty
Pastor Steve Daughtery — "Gretchen's work is on that level. It ranges from game changing to life changing. Everyone needs this level of encouragement. You're going to want to...
Christians Finding Peace after Divorce: Shirley Fessel, Author (Audio)
Finding Peace After Divorce with Shirley Fessel (Audio & Transcript) Feb 11, 2020 - Shirley Fessel, author of the workbook, Redemption from Biblical Battering, tells...
27 Myths about Divorce That Probably Don’t Apply to Committed Christians
Researchers have found (to their surprise) that deeply religious people stay in horrible marriages longer and endure far worse abuse than average. In the face of...
5 Types of Abuse
"Don't blame yourself for provoking the abuse in your relationship. ln a healthy relationship you can make mistakes, get angry or even be critical and not pay such a high...
One Woman’s Story: Adultery, Prayer and the Bible
Have you ever been told that "you just need to pray more about your difficult marriage"? Yet you've been praying for a long time. You've tried hard, you've cried out to the Lord,...