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Do My Pastors Have a Say About Me Getting a Divorce? No. Your pastor does not get to decide or grant permission. Your pastors may have influence in your church community, but they do not have ownership of your conscience, your safety, your children, or your future....
11 Ways to Know if a Church is Safe for Abuse Victims or Divorcees Are you looking for a new church when you need a separation or divorce? Did you know that nearly 6 in 10 churchgoing Christians switch churches or leave their church when they go through a divorce or...
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and many pastors are asking: How should the church address domestic violence from the pulpit? If you are looking for sermon ideas on domestic violence, biblical guidance for responding to abuse, or practical training for...
What Did You Do With Your Wedding and Engagement Ring After Divorce? I did an informal poll on my private Facebook Group: Life-Saving Divorce for Separated or Divorced Christians. Both men and women participated in the poll. See their 40 ideas and comments below. I...
50 MOST POPULAR BLOG POSTS 50 MOST POPULAR BLOG POSTS What is a Life-Saving Divorce? How Do We Know Half of Divorces are “Life-Saving”? (or watch the video) Life-Saving Divorce: Introduction What Is this Book About? (audio and transcript) About Me: Why Is a Nice...
Do We Blind Ourselves When We Date? They say "love is blind," and that's often true. We are so enthralled with our new romance, we don't see the worrisome aspects of our partner's character. We love being in love, so when we see troubling red flags we try to...
I liked Theresa Newberry's story and I'm grateful for her permission to use it. Theresa wrote: "I was a wife who wanted to do everything that a Godly wife should do to keep her husband and marriage happy. Early in my Christianity, I went to many women's conferences...
Will I Find Love Again After Divorce? Remarry or Stay Single If you type “will I find…” into Google, the first suggestion is “love.” Many divorced people aren’t just asking if they’ll feel better. They’re asking if they’ll ever love again. Wanting love and belonging...
About Me: If you're new to my blog, read this first. I'm a committed Evangelical Christian. I attend, I tithe, I serve, I volunteer, I lead Bible studies. I started leading Christian divorce recovery groups in conservative churches in 1998. Despite what we were...