50 Abused Wives and Husbands Answer the Question: "Why Did You Stay So Long?" People wonder why abused women and men stay with a dangerous spouse for so long. I asked...
Gaslighting Examples
15 Questions Before Divorce: What This Popular Christian Article Leaves Out
15 Questions Before Divorce: What Focus on the Family’s Popular Article Leaves Out Focus on the Family published an article in 2020 titled “Is Divorce the Right Answer? 15...
Toxic People Love to Argue
Toxic people crave arguments! They love to challenge you and attack you, because they love being the center of attention. So any time they can tempt you to interact with...
Top 5 Myths About Divorce that Don’t Apply to Christians and Others of Deep Faith
5 MYTHS OF DIVORCE THAT DON'T APPLY TO COMMITTED CHRISTIANS (OR TO OTHER DEEPLY RELIGIOUS PEOPLE) Let’s face it, well-meaning friends and family and even counselors give us...
Lundy Bancroft Interview: Why Does He Do That?
Lundy Bancroft is one of the best authors and speakers on the topic of abusive men in romantic relationships and how to know if they've changed. In this video, created and...
130 Examples of Abuse: Physical, Emotional, Sexual, Spiritual, Financial and Neglect
130 Examples of Abuse: Physical, Emotional, Sexual, Spiritual, Financial and Neglect Overt and covert abuse can be physical, emotional, sexual, financial, spiritual, or...
The Bible Teaches Us to Get Away from Abusers
Bible Verses That Support Leaving Destructive People Have Nothing to Do with Them: Abuse and Boundaries in Scripture We were taught to love, love, love. And forgive, forgive,...
Does Love (or Infatuation) Blind Us to Danger?
Do We Blind Ourselves When We Date? They say "love is blind," and that's often true. We are so enthralled with our new romance, we don't see the worrisome aspects of our...
Christian Marriage Seminars Must Discuss Abuse & Denial
I liked Theresa Newberry's story and I'm grateful for her permission to use it. Theresa wrote: "I was a wife who wanted to do everything that a Godly wife should do to keep her...
Excommunication for Getting Divorced?
Churches that Excommunicate for DivorceAnd How to Protect Yourself and Your Children About Me: If you're new to my blog, read this first. I started leading Christian divorce...
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10 Highlights of “The Life-Saving Divorce” book [VIDEO with Transcript]
10 Highlights from the Life-Saving Divorce Book I'm sure you're busy and you don't have time to read an entire 446-page book. So I've done a 15-minute video of highlights for...
Am I the One Destroying the Relationship? Or Is This Abuse?
Am I the One Destroying the Relationship? Why Victims of Abuse Often Blame Themselves For a short audio summary in multiple languages, listen here: Many people trapped in...
Remarriage after Divorce: How Can I Claim to be the Innocent Spouse? I Had My Faults Too!
Recently in my private Facebook group, we were talking about the Bible allowing remarriage for the innocent spouse after a valid divorce. After all, God doesn't hold you...
27 Myths about Divorce That Probably Don’t Apply to Committed Christians
Researchers have found (to their surprise) that deeply religious people stay in horrible marriages longer and endure far worse abuse than average. In the face of...
5 Types of Abuse and Control
"Don't blame yourself for provoking the abuse in your relationship. ln a healthy relationship you can make mistakes, get angry or even be critical and not pay such a high...
One Woman’s Story: Adultery, Prayer and the Bible
One Woman’s Story: Adultery, Prayer, and When “Pray Harder” Isn’t Enough The Burden Many Christian Women Carry Alone If you’re asking, “How can I save my marriage?” or “How can I...