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What is J.A.D.E. and Gray Rock?

What is J.A.D.E. and Gray Rock?

by gbaskerville | Jan 22, 2022 | Abuse examples, Gaslighting Examples, Safe Churches & Friends

Toxic people crave arguments! They love to challenge you and attack you, because they love being the center of attention.   So any time they can tempt you to interact with them, they consider it a big win. They love to suck up your time and attention.   They...
Critique: “The Effects of Divorce On Children,” a Focus on the Family Video

Critique: “The Effects of Divorce On Children,” a Focus on the Family Video

by gbaskerville | Jan 13, 2022 | Focus on the Family, High-Conflict Divorces

Critique: “The Effects of Divorce On Children” Video by Focus on the Family 12 Mistakes in this Video   This is a critique of the new video, “The Effects of Divorce On Children” from Focus on the Family, featuring Danny Huerta, Tim Sanford, and John Trent ...
What is a Flying Monkey? (In the Divorce Context)

What is a Flying Monkey? (In the Divorce Context)

by gbaskerville | Jan 12, 2022 | High-Conflict Divorces

What is a Flying Monkey? In a divorce, a "flying monkey" is an ally your ex-spouse has won to their side. Often they start by driving a wedge between you and this person by subtly smearing your reputation over time. Below are some examples and at the bottom of this...
My $200 Offer: U.S. Focus on the Family Doesn’t Condone Divorce for Domestic Violence…EVER

My $200 Offer: U.S. Focus on the Family Doesn’t Condone Divorce for Domestic Violence…EVER

by gbaskerville | Jan 12, 2022 | Christians and Divorce, Focus on the Family

Someday I hope to pay this $200 award. (I've been offering a reward for months.) Someday I hope U.S. Focus on the Family will officially condone divorce for domestic violence and will add it to their list of accepted biblical reasons. Someday I hope U.S. Focus on the...
Critique: “Marriage is Hard. Divorce is Hard. Choose Your Hard.”

Critique: “Marriage is Hard. Divorce is Hard. Choose Your Hard.”

by gbaskerville | Dec 31, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, Gaslighting Examples, High-Conflict Divorces, Myths, Safe Churches & Friends

Critique of the Saying, “Marriage is Hard. Divorce is Hard. Choose Your Hard”   There’s a meme going around the internet and it starts with the line “Marriage is Hard. Divorce is Hard. Choose Your Hard.” . This maxim annoys me. It was written by some smug person...
Abusive Marriage? It Might Not Be Your Fault You Didn’t See Red Flags

Abusive Marriage? It Might Not Be Your Fault You Didn’t See Red Flags

by gbaskerville | Dec 30, 2021 | Abuse examples, Christians and Divorce, Gaslighting Examples

3 Reasons You Missed the Red Flags and Got into a Abusive or Unfaithful Marriage It's not your fault.     People may accuse you of ignoring the warning signs before the wedding.   You might be kicking yourself right now, saying "I should have seen that my...
How to Defend Yourself against “You Made Your Bed; Now Lie in It”

How to Defend Yourself against “You Made Your Bed; Now Lie in It”

by gbaskerville | Dec 30, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, High-Conflict Divorces

How to Defend Yourself against “You Made Your Bed; Now Lie in It” 3 Reasons You Didn’t See Warning Signs or Red Flags     The surest sign that a person is a fake friend is one who says: “You Made Your Bed; Now Lie in It”   They are blaming you, “You get...
10 Steps to Start the Divorce Process if You Need a Life-Saving Divorce

10 Steps to Start the Divorce Process if You Need a Life-Saving Divorce

by gbaskerville | Dec 30, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, High-Conflict Divorces

10 Steps to Starting the Divorce Process, if You Need a Life-Saving Divorce   First, make sure you (and the kids) are safe.   If your spouse has weapons or has a history of destructive behavior, you need to take precautions. If your spouse has a pattern of...
Critique: Focus on the Family’s “PEDOPHILIA IN MARRIAGE” Article—10 Pros and 10 Cons

Critique: Focus on the Family’s “PEDOPHILIA IN MARRIAGE” Article—10 Pros and 10 Cons

by gbaskerville | Dec 29, 2021 | Christians and Divorce, Focus on the Family

  Critique of the Focus on the Family article: "PEDOPHILIA in MARRIAGE" 10 Pros and 10 Cons about their Advice . (Summary: Does Focus on the Family's article"Pedophilia in Marriage" give good advice? This 2015 article starts with some questions from a nameless...
“If I Divorce, Will My Children Divorce?” No. They are likely to have lifelong marriages.

“If I Divorce, Will My Children Divorce?” No. They are likely to have lifelong marriages.

by gbaskerville | Dec 28, 2021 | Divorce and Children, Myths

If I Divorce, Will My Kid’s Marriage End in Divorce, Too?   Most adults whose parents divorced do not divorce. They are likely to have lifelong marriages. The majority of people whose parents divorced have lifelong marriages. However, children from divorced homes...
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