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What Is Gray Rock? A Strategy for Handling a Destructive Person Sometimes you cannot go No Contact. If you share minor children with a destructive ex, you may be legally required to communicate. In those situations, Gray Rock can help. Gray Rock is not for healthy...
Unconditional Love in Marriage: What It Is — and What It Is Not Unconditional love is one of the most beautiful truths in Christianity. It is also one of the most misunderstood. Many sincere believers have been taught that loving “like Jesus” means staying no matter...
Joseph and Potiphar’s Wife: Resisting Sexual Harassment and Assault (Genesis 39) Update: I’ve written a shorter, search-friendly version of this article here: Is It Sexual Harassment If the Victim Didn’t Fight or Run? Recently I saw a tweet about the biblical story of...
When “Leave and Cleave” Becomes Spiritual Isolation Genesis 2:24 says a man shall “leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife.” Beautiful. Sacred. Good. But in some church spaces today, “leave and cleave” has been repackaged into something far more...
When Church Communities Enable Elder Undue Influence Warning Signs of Elder Financial Abuse, Dementia Denial, and Isolation from Family Sometimes elder abuse doesn’t look like bruises or obvious fraud. Sometimes it looks like a vulnerable parent being encouraged to...
Forgiveness That Lets Abusive Fathers Off the Hook Why Focus on the Family Still Echoes Dobson-Era Harm For decades, James Dobson shaped how conservative Christians talk about family, authority, and forgiveness. Much of that influence still lingers—even when Dobson...
Christian Wedding Vows After Escaping an Abusive Marriage Safer Wedding Vows for Remarriage After Abuse When Christian remarry after abuse, they ask an important question: What do wedding vows sound like when you’ve lived through betrayal, abuse, or spiritual...
Focus on the Family’s “5 Traditional Marriage Vows”: Are These Even Biblical — and How Are They Misused? Recent Focus on the Family social media and article present five phrases from “traditional marriage vows” as if they are the oldest and most biblically...
Divorce Hurts Kids—But Abuse Hurts Them More (A Response to the #GreaterThan Campaign’s Divorce Pivot) This post responds to the campaign’s claim that “divorce hurts kids” by examining what the research actually compares—and what it leaves out. The #GreaterThan...