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He Never Hit Me: Annette’s Story of Emotional Abuse, Neglect, and Finding Freedom As a Christian lay divorce recovery leader for the past 25 years, it's been my privilege to hear a lot of stories of committed people of faith who had to leave their destructive...
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Wayne Grudem Changed His Mind on Abuse, Divorce, and Remarriage Dr. Wayne Grudem’s acceptance of divorce and remarriage after abuse is revolutionary precisely because he is Wayne Grudem. He is a pillar of conservative evangelical theology, not a liberal theologian....
Review of “Combatting the Lies That Can Destroy Your Marriage,” a Focus on the Family Video Series Based on the book 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage, a Focus on the Family Book People often wonder if they should give away their personal contact information and...
A Remarkable Pattern of Healing Over Time A new 2025 study of middle-aged divorced women offers something many Christians need to hear: the pain of divorce is real, but it is not necessarily permanent. In this longitudinal study, women returned to about their baseline...
Why Some Christian Women Get a Gray Divorce After Decades of Abuse Why would a Christian woman divorce just weeks before her 40th anniversary? That question confuses many people when they hear about a gray divorce. Financial experts worry about retirement. Friends may...
Parent-Adult Child Estrangement: 9 Types What happened to you? Estrangement is the painful breakdown or distancing of a family relationship, and it can happen suddenly or develop over many years for many different reasons. Some adult children pull back justly or...
Romans 7 Does Not Teach “Marriage Ends Only at Death” One argument against divorce that I hear occasionally goes like this: Romans 7 says a wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives, so marriage can only end at death. Therefore divorce is not really possible,...
When Pro-Marriage Organizations Ignore Abuse: How Christian and Traditional Voices Fail Christian Wives and Mothers How Focus on the Family, Institute for Family Studies, Heritage Foundation, Family Research Council, Brad Wilcox, and American Enterprise Institute...
What Many Christians Were Never Told About the Large 1998 ACE Study Many Christians have never even heard of the Adverse Childhood Experiences study published in 1998, much less the years of research that followed it. This was not some tiny study tucked away in a...
AI Is Not a Safe Place to Process Your Divorce If you are going through divorce, especially an abusive or high-conflict one, I want to say this as plainly as I can: public AI is not your safe place. New laws covering the use of AI have not yet been fully settled....