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PROS and CONS: Keep Your Married Name After Divorce? Or No? In June 2021, there was an informal poll in my private Facebook Group: Life-Saving Divorce for Separated or Divorced Christians. More than 300 women participated in the poll, which asked the question: What...
POLL: Did You Go Back to Your Maiden Name or Keep Your Married Name After Divorce? Or Some Other Option? Quick answer: Women choose every option: Keep a married name for their children Return to a maiden name for healing and identity Choose something new for safety or...
What Did You Do With Your Wedding Dress or Tuxedo After Divorce? I ran an informal poll in my private Facebook Group: Life-Saving Divorce for Separated or Divorced Christians. Both men and women participated in the poll. See more than 50 ideas and comments below...
15 Questions Before Divorce: What Focus on the Family’s Popular Article Leaves Out Focus on the Family published an article in 2020 titled “Is Divorce the Right Answer? 15 Questions Couples Should Ask” by psychologist Dr. Angela Bisignano. Although it was written...
Toxic people crave arguments! They love to challenge you and attack you, because they love being the center of attention. So any time they can tempt you to interact with them, they consider it a big win. They love to suck up your time and attention. They...
Book Review: Before You Say “I Do” (Norman Wright & Wes Roberts) A premarital workbook that ignores abuse, addictions, and other red flags UPDATE 2026: This book has sold more than 1 million copies and achieved an ECPA Platinum Award. It still tops the Amazon...
5 MYTHS OF DIVORCE THAT DON'T APPLY TO COMMITTED CHRISTIANS (OR TO OTHER DEEPLY RELIGIOUS PEOPLE) Let’s face it, well-meaning friends and family and even counselors give us advice on fixing our marriages: Try harder, pray more, be more agreeable, have more sex. But...
Why Didn't Our Churches Tell Us the Truth about Children and Divorce? For decades, many of us stayed far longer than we should have—because we truly believed we were doing the right thing. We were told that God hates divorce, that good Christians never give up, and...
How Do I Know If My Spouse Has Really Changed? Summary: This article gives 3 ways you can know if your abusive or addicted spouse has really changed and 3 signs that they have not. It also includes 3 Responses to Give to People Who Pressure You to Reconcile. Watch the...